I see Light at the end of ths tunnel

Well, it seems like there are more and more days that have no entries. I know part of it is that we are seeing light at the end of the tunnel and possibly also that everything seems to have become one big blur.

Dad continues to ask about Mom. We try to redirect him but some days it's just not that easy. I am just waiting to see how long this adjustment will take. I've heard that it takes a good month for people with Alzheimer's to adjust to a new situation or environment.

All I know is that having Ma placed in a nursing home and having Dad in daycare has been like a breath of fresh air. I feel that we can breathe a bit more now. I am sure in time, this too shall pass. On the weekends we try to take Dad out for leisurely drives. I think it does him good. We take him out to lunch or just go for a cruise. The hard part is anticipating his next (same old) question, "When are we going to see Ma? It's been a couple of days since I've seen her!" In reality that couple of days is really 17 days since we first took her in to see the doctor.

All in all, it's been a rough road, but then again, I believe DH and I have grown a lot, learned a lot and got closer to each other. The hardest part is not getting in the way (line of fire) and becoming part of the problem and not the solution. It's been humbling to realize our own impatience, intolerance and shortcomings. Ahui ho. Till next time.